CHARACTER; THE BASE FOR BEAUTY
No wonder a portion in the Bible says that beauty is deceit but a woman that fears the Lord.
Am a Christian and am not trying to promote my faith here but a non christian can learn from here too.....
A good character makes one more beautiful and handsome.
You see a lot of gorgeous women and handsome men on our streets, in our offices, in school,at recreational parks, at the gym,studio, shopping mall, beaches etc but if anything provoke them,you'll see them behave in ways that is shocking. Ranging from throwing tantrums to saying words that hurt,and even fighting and so on.
That alone can reduce the beauty people see in you and the faith they had in you. You can imagine,if some one was admiring you from a distance, they admiration will cease.
Some times I can understand that there are underlying causes for example stress,frustration, a traumatic experience,hidden pain and the list goes on.
But we are fellow humans and may not know what your going through except you air it.
You stand a chance to loose your job,your friends and even your marriage, respect and a whole lot.....
Character is like a colourful topping or dressing or icing on a cake. That's what potentiates our beauty. Its not optional.
God did not create us to be ugly,so why do you want be ugly by spoiling our character.
If you have noticed any deviation from the norm,I mean character wise; first point out or identify what it is that needs to be corrected.
Accept that you need help,strategize how to handle it, share some pain with anyone you trust,you can meet a counsellor to begin therapy sessions.
You can join local support groups. You will be encouraged when you hear their story and how they got better.
Ensure you adapt to changes, i.e what you are taught or encouraged to do. And we will make a world filled with true beautiful Ladies and handsome gentlemen
Am a Christian and am not trying to promote my faith here but a non christian can learn from here too.....
A good character makes one more beautiful and handsome.
You see a lot of gorgeous women and handsome men on our streets, in our offices, in school,at recreational parks, at the gym,studio, shopping mall, beaches etc but if anything provoke them,you'll see them behave in ways that is shocking. Ranging from throwing tantrums to saying words that hurt,and even fighting and so on.
That alone can reduce the beauty people see in you and the faith they had in you. You can imagine,if some one was admiring you from a distance, they admiration will cease.
Some times I can understand that there are underlying causes for example stress,frustration, a traumatic experience,hidden pain and the list goes on.
But we are fellow humans and may not know what your going through except you air it.
You stand a chance to loose your job,your friends and even your marriage, respect and a whole lot.....
Character is like a colourful topping or dressing or icing on a cake. That's what potentiates our beauty. Its not optional.
God did not create us to be ugly,so why do you want be ugly by spoiling our character.
If you have noticed any deviation from the norm,I mean character wise; first point out or identify what it is that needs to be corrected.
Accept that you need help,strategize how to handle it, share some pain with anyone you trust,you can meet a counsellor to begin therapy sessions.
You can join local support groups. You will be encouraged when you hear their story and how they got better.
Ensure you adapt to changes, i.e what you are taught or encouraged to do. And we will make a world filled with true beautiful Ladies and handsome gentlemen
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